Beginner Help

Today, i’m going to take a step back to the beginning for my newer readers and talk about something that helped me the first year or so in my submission. Many today, find their Dominants online, rather than in person. Mostly, because we are afraid of admitting to ourselves or to the people around us…

Master’s Input

Hello all, From time to time I’ll drop in and add my two cents. However, this blog is primarily maeve’s responsibility so I’ll be intermittent. A little introduction on my part is in order so here goes: I’ve been involved in the lifestyle for over a decade and have switched for almost as long. I…

Submission and What it Really Means

You ever hear someone talk about the BDSM lifestyle and you get this hinky feeling, like OMG are they FREAKY!! So let’s just back up for a minute and go over a few things. First: BDSM. What is it? The term has several definitions, depending on who you speak to depends on what it means….

Our Story

Master made an observation on my previous post that some of you might not be aware of our story and suggested that I tell it in full now. Some of you have been following this blog for awhile and are aware of the trials that Master and I have undergone. For those who are unaware…

Anticipation

Anticipation. This is not what you would typically associate with being separated from the love of your life. Most people, myself included, fall into a deep, hopeless depression. So, how do you change your mindset from depression to anticipation? The answer is not that simple. I honestly wish it were. Every day I must remind…

Love is. . .

There has been a lot going on that has kept me from writing. Now, I found myself in need of an outlet. Please forgive me if this doesn’t make total sense. Master and I had a plan. I was supposed to move (again) to be with Him. Then something happened. Master was told he had…

The Power of Submission

Master and I were talking recently about our relationship and a question that he was asked. The question was simple. Would you want your children to have this type of relationship? We both agreed that this is something we want our children to want. Some people would think that this is a crazy idea. I…

Happy Anniversary on WordPress

Two years ago, today, I chose to share my journey as a full-time slave to my wonderful Master. I haven’t written every day, as I had originally intended. However, what I have written has not only shown me great insights but lead me to some wonderful people on WordPress. I would like to thank all…

Blessed

I am extremely blessed to be loved by one such as Master. He makes an effort to make me feel loved and special every day. Relationships are hard work, but they don’t have to be.   With Thanksgiving just around a corner, we are reminded to be thankful for what we have in our lives. While…

The Strength of Submission

Submission is such an all-encompassing part of my life that, the only real vanilla part of my life is my public persona. However, the submissive in me sits just below the surface, always thinking how best to portray myself so that Master looks good. I’ve written on this subject before, but when Master set it…

The Beauty of Submission

Today’s meditation was a subject I could really get into. Master asked me to meditate on The Beauty of Submission. As you can see this subject had me instantly. I love being asked to think and write on submission as it is a very large part of who I am. I was raised to be…

Productivity vs. Busyness

After a long break, Master is back to instructing my daily meditation. Today’s topic Productivity vs. Busyness. This has been a topic we have discussed a lot over the last several months. Let’s jump right in, shall we? I’d like to first talk about what each of these words means to me. Productivity, in essence,…

An Anniversary Worth Mentioning

Seven Years ago, I made a decision that changed my life. The month of October is special to me because of this. At the beginning of the month, Master and I started talking about the idea of my submission. I was terrified. I was raised to be a strong, independent woman. The idea of giving…

A Letter to my Master

Dear Master, Throughout the years we have grown as individuals as well as a couple. As we have grown together, we have changed together. We no longer have a vanilla relationship in the traditional sense. There are many who would say that I have given up a good relationship in exchange for one that belittles…

Submission is Not Weakness

I have been doing some thinking about something that is close to me. The concept of submission in today’s world is synonymous with being weak, That’s what the Women’s Liberation movement would have you believe. I think otherwise. Submitting to someone else is not a sign of weakness, but one of strength. To willingly allow…